An overwhelming majority — 92% — of older adults reported that they would prefer to live out their golden years in their current home. In fact, the percentage of older adults checking in to assisted living or nursing homes has declined over the past 20 years.
As a culture, Americans place a high value on independence. The ability to be self-reliant and maintain control over one’s own life is a source of confidence, self-esteem, and (perhaps counterintuitively) a feeling of belonging for many.
Aging in place is clearly a popular dream, but achieving it is easier said than done. This article will cover:
- Why independence is so beneficial as you age
- Common issues that may get in the way
- Actionable tips to help you prepare yourself or your loved ones to continue to enjoy an active and independent lifestyle for years to come
The impact of aging on independence
Older age groups in the U.S. are growing faster than their younger counterparts, with the number of people over the age of 65 on track to rise from 56 million in 2020 to 95 million by 2060. By 2030, nearly 1 in 5 Americans will be in this age group. It’s a big demographic, and one that’s growing quickly.
As you age, any number of health concerns can crop up that eat away at your independence. Chronic illnesses begin to become more apparent, loss of mobility can start a vicious cycle, hearing and sight can start to make it more difficult to take calls or handle paperwork, and a myriad of other issues begin to make themselves known.
Common age-related issues
Getting older impacts your independence in three broad ways: reduced hearing, reduced vision, and mobility issues. These are very common among seniors in the U.S.
- 31.1% of people aged 65 and older experience hearing loss
- 40.3% over the age of 75 experience hearing loss
- 23.3% of people over 65 have vision loss
- 40% of seniors reporting trouble with things like walking or climbing stairs
Why personal independence matters
To be clear, when we talk about “independence,” we don’t mean “never needing or asking for help from anyone.” Everyone needs a hand every now and again. In fact, that kind of community support can help you achieve the type of independence we’re talking about — the ability to age in place without constant care.
This kind of independence is an important part of mental health. It gives you a sense of autonomy, purpose, and control over your life. After living independently for decades, loss of independence can be a big blow to your self-esteem.
Tips for staying independent as you age
There is no shame in deciding to take advantage of assisted living options, and many of them have great programs in place to help their residents maintain a sense of independence. Still, 77% of Americans over the age of 50 say they prefer to age in place.
So here are a few tips that can help you maintain your independence as you age:
Physical Activity
Regular exercise is the best way to prevent mobility issues down the line. Whether you can go for bike rides, swim, do Pilates, hit the weights, or just go out for a nice walk, any level of activity can be beneficial.
Depending on your age and health, it may be a good idea to talk with your doctor before starting a new exercise regimen. They can help you set reasonable goals and identify workouts that will work for you.
Here are a few keys to keep in mind when developing your own exercise routine:
- Start simple: Treadmills have lower settings for a reason. Walking can be an excellent aerobic exercise to start building endurance.
- Never skip a warmup: Especially as you get up there in years, preparing your body for a workout will help you avoid injury and make the most of the workout. Hop on a stationary bike for a few minutes or go through some active stretches that get your body moving, bring your heart rate up gradually, and loosen up your muscles.
- Everyone — even you — can benefit from strength training: The goal doesn’t have to be bulky muscle mass; training key muscle groups can help with your balance, posture, and even bone density.
- Soreness is different than pain: If a joint or a muscle hurt for longer than a day or two, stop exercising that area and consult your doctor. They can diagnose whether you have a more serious problem or injury and may even be able to suggest alternative exercises to help you stay active while avoiding pain.
The key to any workout routine is consistency. Find an activity that gets you moving and stick to it.
Cognitive Health
Keeping your body fit is great, but it’s just as important to break the occasional mental sweat. Daily crossword puzzles and similar brain games are a fun way to keep your mind sharp, but they’re only part of the picture. It’s also important to maintain other mentally stimulating habits, like reading, listening to or playing music, and most importantly, staying socially active.
Studies have found a link between socializing and both mental flexibility and brain resilience. Similarly, research shows that maintaining close friendships delays mental decline. Face-to-face interactions with other people can activate parts of your nervous system that regulate stress and anxiety.
Plus, social interaction presents critical learning experiences no matter how old you are. Everyone has something they can teach you, and everyone is capable of surprising you.
Find opportunities to interact with your local community and get to know your neighbors. Enroll in group classes, get involved with some charity work, or find clubs centered around your interests.
Home Modifications
There’s plenty you can do to prepare yourself, body and mind, to age in place. There’s also another factor to the equation — the place. An AARP survey found that nearly three quarters (71%) of adults said their homes and some accessibility issues.
Fortunately, there’s an entire world of products designed to help you overcome home accessibility hurdles based on your particular needs.
For example, if you’re worried about getting around your house, you can install grab bars in key locations, replace loose rugs with non-slip alternatives, swap corded vacuums with rechargeable cordless versions (or, better yet, autonomous robot vacuum cleaners).
Improving your indoor lighting can help if you’ve noticed your vision is going, and it also makes a big difference in preventing falls. You can also get low-intensity non-prescription glasses from just about any pharmacy and even invest in some personal magnifying glasses to keep in high-use areas.
There are also services like CaptionCall, which provide real-time captioning at no cost for people with hearing loss who need captions to understand phone calls. It even comes with a captioned landline phone included!
Embrace Technology
We’ve touched on this above, but it bears repeating — in the quest for self-reliance, technology can be your friend. Technology that makes it easier for you to stay connected with your family, your community, your doctors, repair or delivery services — basically anyone outside your home — is probably worth learning to use.
Smartphones enable communication anywhere, offering reliable applications for everything from video calling to home grocery deliveries. They can even sync with smart home appliances, allowing you to control lights, air conditioning, televisions, and even window blinds with a few taps on your phone. Getting comfortable with a smartphone can go a long way toward ensuring greater independence as you get older.
Another technology worth highlighting is telehealth portals — online communication systems that allow your doctor to share important medical information and updates with you. Doctors often use this as a follow-up to an appointment, sometimes even as an alternative to an otherwise unnecessary appointment. They can provide lab results, complete with your doctor’s notes for you to review at any time to ensure you have a better understanding of your own health.
Ask for Help When Needed
Independence doesn’t mean never asking for help. It means knowing how to proactively get the help you need when you need it. Nobody gets by entirely on their own; it always takes a village.
When you start having trouble with health, mobility, or any other issue that might impact your ability to take care of yourself, it's best to address it immediately. Consult your friends, family, neighbors, doctors, and other professionals where appropriate to find a solution that will help you maintain your independence. Accepting help from home health aids or through regular check-ins from loved ones will help you extend your years of living independently.